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Isha Yiras Hashem's avatar

Everyone needs a community. Essentially you're suggesting alternatives to religious community?

And yet, despite your lack of connection, and your choices against it, you still felt connected ...

The problem with chosen communities like this is that they're optional. You could, at any point, decide you no longer wish to be in SCA / folk dancing / knitting club. And so can anyone else.

It is much easier to build community on things that most people find difficult to change, like location, religion, or handicap.

Speaking of communities, they are among the best ways to stop baseless hatred, which my post yesterday was about. https://ishayirashashem.substack.com/p/stop-baseless-hatred

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Veganism is a village too. Within a few hours of visiting Mexico City I already made a friend I still know to this day. Within 24 hours I’d met more people than my friend who’d convinced me to visit the city.

Whenever I meet a new vegan here, they inevitably know or know of the guy who organizes most of the big vegan parties here.

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