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Scott Gibb's avatar

“Sitting in a classroom for many hours a day…” For almost all of human history and prehistory, children were with parents and other kin, in a band or village, working together, and presumably playing and entertaining themselves when they could afford it. Today, kids go to school, and parents go to work. They are separate for the working part of their day.

At home parents probably don’t interact with their kids enough, except for a narrow set of activities. Probably TV, car shuttling, eating together, and basic communications to workout logistics, permissions, discipline, etc.

There is very little interaction between parents and children with regard to things that matter compared to past times. In order for children to inherit from their parents a comprehensive culture, norms, habits, folkways, modes of problem solving, their school would need to be MUCH more than it currently is. It seems that school is pretty narrow. Many worksheets. A fair amount of busy work. College is an improvement, but most college professors have never worked in industry. So it is quite a shock for a twenty-something to enter the workforce after having spent so little time with people, particularly his or her parents doing real work and solving life’s many problems. Cooking, exercise, legal, corporate communication, interviewing, dating, home maintenance, politics, etc. The learning curve is very steep for a twenty something just hitting the workforce.

And I haven’t said much about dysfunctional families. The portrait above is for a typical somewhat healthy family. Add some obesity, alcohol, poor character and you’re now looking at another big fraction of families. Of course some families are better than I’ve described.

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Frank's avatar

I'm wondering if there is not a common cause to many or most of these rightly pointed out worries. Real or imagined, the phenomena pointed to are worries. That common cause might be increased risk aversion. Makes sense with rising incomes. We are willing to pay more to avoid risks when we are richer.

I grew up in the northeastern most bit of AOC's district in the Bronx. That in NY City, strangely it was almost rural for a few more years. So, I was free range: Go play with the kids! I wished to recreate the free range stuff for my daughter here in Northern Virginia. Though we lived modestly, wife and I were almost able to recreate that chance. Having grown up in NY City, I knew all about it, and particularly envied Holden Caulfield for taking taxis everywhere around Central Park. Well, the day came, when wife and I were at work, and daughter had to go to Girl Scouts, or another fascist organization. By phone, I said to her to order a cab. She did, and tried to pick up a girlfriend along the way. The scene that ensued! Friend's mother in panic, even though she saw who was riding! Risk aversion has its amusing sides.

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